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The Cotter Pins of Life

8/16/2014

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This summer my family and I had an adventure on the water. We had spent a wonderful weekend at a local marina on our boat with family and friends. The vacation was over, and we needed to get the boat out of the water and trailer it back home. We pulled away from the dock, and quickly discovered that the boat would only go in reverse. It wouldn’t go in neutral, and wouldn’t drive forward. My husband thought quickly, and managed to navigate backwards through the marina to a safe harbor where we could anchor out to await assistance. After a few phone calls, we ended up being towed back to the boat launch, and trailered the boat safely back home. We contacted the mechanic, and were told that it could take weeks to get the boat repaired, and that it would likely be very expensive.
 
My husband opened the cover of the outboard motor, and found a little hairpin cotter lying just inside. It was a seemingly delicate metal pin, only about an inch long, similar to the photo I’ve included. When the pin was originally installed, after being inserted through the two pieces it was designed to hold together, the two ends should have been bent in opposite directions like the letter "T". Instead, someone bent both ends the same direction, so that it formed an “L” shape. Over time, it had worked its way out of the hole, and as we backed away from the dock, it fell out, and the motor lost the ability to shift into other positions. It took my husband about a minute to put the pin back through the two holes and to bend the ends in separate directions. The repair cost us nothing.
 
It was amazing to me that a tiny little cotter pin could disable an entire boat and cause so much inconvenience for our family. As I marveled at that thought, it occurred to me that often it’s the “little things in life” that cause the biggest problems. They may be little things that we think are inconsequential, or that we don’t even notice until something goes wrong.
 
What are the “cotter pins” or “little things” in your life? What impact could they have if you ensure that they are addressed effectively? What could happen if they are neglected?
 
Consider these quotes:
  • Live with wild, exceptional excellence in the small things…they are the very foundation of grand adventures.-Tsh Oxenrider, The art of Simple.net
  • It has long been an axiom of mine that the little things are infinitely the most important.-Arthur Conan Doyle, The Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes
  • It's dreadful what little things lead people to misunderstand each other.- L.M. Montgomery, Emily's Quest
Wishing you an enjoyable and successful week…in the big things as well as the little things!
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11/19/2014 05:23:29 pm

Just like that tiny little pin, many little things play important roles in our lives and in the life of those around us and about the matters that we do not give any attention to many a times. Nice thing to point out and a post worth reading I must say.

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11/19/2014 05:41:26 pm

We commonly thought that education is just gaining knowledge. Reading text books and learning from teachers which teach us but infect it is not the knowledge of lessons it is the lesson of life. Education makes us confident and we could interpret things with other things.

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12/1/2014 06:59:24 pm

Always has really good posts and topics please keep it up! loads of blogs are going under lately from lack of new posts etc.

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