Every one of us is part of a community. Our family members, neighbors, co-workers, people we encounter as we travel to and from our destinations, and those living and working at each of the places along the way, are all part of our community. Some of us live and work in a variety of communities, experiencing the different “flavors” of each group of people, and partaking of the goods and services that they offer us.
The dictionary defines “community” in two general ways. One is simply, “a group of people living in the same place or having a particular characteristic in common.” The other is, “a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals.” It’s interesting to note that a person can be part of a community (or many communities), as defined the first way, without ever feeling part of the community as defined the second way. Which communities are you a part of? Do you feel like you belong? How many people are part of a community with you, but do not feel like they belong? What can you do to enfold them, to provide the fellowship that is such a key component to really experiencing community? Community is bigger than one person. It’s actually much bigger than what we can see, or the people who come to mind initially when we consider our community. It includes people living and working around us, who we may not see or meet, but whose efforts and presence directly impact our daily lives and well-being. It includes people we haven’t yet met, whose gifts and needs are still relevant to our lives. Regardless of how you feel about yourself or the people around you, there are others out there who need what you have to offer, and who may be able to meet some of your needs. I encourage you to go through this week really seeing the people around you, and asking yourself what you can do to BE community to them, to fellowship with them, to encourage them, and to learn from them. While we’re at it, I want to thank YOU for being a part of our Social Incites community. Readers of this article are all around the world, each impacting his or her own communities in unique ways. I am humbled by your willingness to stay connected with me, and thank you for the ways you have taught, encouraged, and enfolded me. I enjoy the fellowship, and hope you do, too!
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Social IncitesSocial Incites™ are insights which incite (encourage) personal and interpersonal growth. Social Incites™ are written by Laurel Hoekman, Certified Family Life Educator, Certified Employment Training Specialist, Social Coach, Consultant, and Registered Social Service Technician (Michigan). For 15 years, Laurel was the Executive Director of The Gray Center for Social Learning and Understanding, and has also been a CASA volunteer (Court Appointed Special Advocate for children who are abused and neglected). She is passionate about helping individuals and families (including those affected by autism spectrum disorders) identify and achieve their goals, particularly in building and maintaining effective social connections. Archives
April 2023
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