Appreciating others

​One of my favorite aspects of my career has been meeting people with a variety of “disabilities.” In my role as an employment coach, I get to know them and be involved in helping them prepare for and succeed in meaningful and successful employment.
 
I know that their challenges are real, and are apparent not only to them, but also to those who live with them and work with them. However, all too often their abilities go unnoticed or under-appreciated, and their contributions to society may be less than they could be if we would do more to assist and encourage them.
 
April is Autism Awareness Month! But it isn’t enough to simply be more aware. Instead, we also need to appreciate, accept, and accommodate. We can take time to listen as they discuss their interests and ideas. We can write a note or create a poster or a scrapbook congratulating them on an achievement, big or small, or letting them know we love them. We can find a way for them to use their time and gifts in meaningful ways. We can help them learn more about themselves in an effort to develop a healthy self-esteem and self-awareness, and to better identify where and how they can connect in meaningful ways with others. And while we’re at it, we can affirm and support –and learn from--those who are involved in their lives as parents, siblings, grandparents, teachers, therapists, employers, and friends.
 
You may have noticed that I no longer send weekly blog posts. I know you likely have full inboxes, and I value your time and other pursuits. I have been busy with coaching and with foster care, and no longer have the time to send weekly updates. However, I do try to post more often to our Social Incites Facebook page and my devotional page, Pocket Perke. I hope you’ll connect with me in one or both places!
 
To all of you, thank you for enriching my life in so many ways!
 
Laurel Hoekman
Social Incites, LLC