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Social Incites, LLC
Mailing address:
1100 Cobblestone Road
Holland, MI  49423
616.422.5886

Because of the COVID-19 crisis, many of our sessions, when appropriate, are conducted via Zoom or Facetime. When possible, others are conducted around the West Michigan community at various nonprofits and other businesses, or sometimes in the comfort of a client's home.

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A message from Social Incites, LLC founder, Laurel Hoekman:

I am blessed to have a job I love! For the past 30 years, I have had the opportunity to work with and learn from wonderful people, first as a first grade teacher, then for 14 years as the Executive Director of The Gray Center for Social Learning and Understanding. Since 2012, I have been able to continue this amazing journey through Social Incites, LLC. My first commitment is to God, and my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I am humbled that He continues to provide opportunities for me to use my gifts to help, encourage, and learn from so many people, including people with autism and Asperger Syndrome and other diagnoses, and their families, who have been a huge inspiration to me. I've learned from countless teachers and professionals along the way, both those who are quietly making a difference in their own corner of the world, as well as those who are acknowledged as experts in the field.

I am passionate about helping people to move forward in their lives. Through my presenting, writing, coaching and consulting, and  teaching, as well as answering  emails from people around the world, I love to help people get the information and support they need to understand who God is, and who He created them to be, and to discover the plan God has for them, as well as "next steps" for continued growth. 

I love helping people experience--and enjoy--success! Whether it's learning to participate in a group, sleep in their own bed, speak in public, ask a question, teach a new skill, find or keep a job, make a new friend, manage difficult behaviors at home or in the classroom, deal successfully with anxiety, understand and connect with their child, spouse, or themselves, respond effectively to others' expectations, or simply to enjoy resting in an assurance of their identity in Christ-- that is the most fulfilling part of my role as a coach.

I am blessed to work with other talented, compassionate individuals. Click here for information on our other coaches...